It's always a eternal prlblem for the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it's really sensitive and complex.
How do you say that? They were srangers at first for the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and then they are a family because of a man.
Before that,they have never lived each other, different living environment, different living habit, even different values. all of them can influence their emotional reactions.
So what should we do? Firstly, there should be some boundary for mother-in-law, for example, don't be a backseat driver, and ought not to bully son's wife. Do the above, most of the daughter-in-law will get along well with them.
To respect each other, to show understanding each other, Conversely, more and more contradiction.
Of course, there is a key person who is a son and a husband between monther-in-law and daughter-in-law, if he is responsible, there will be not any contradiction. Do you think so? I know, easier said than done. Just try our best.
婆媳关系一直是千古难题,敏感复杂。
怎么说呢?婆婆和儿媳本来是两个陌生人,她们之间因为一个男人而变成了家人。
在这之前,她们从未一起生活过,不同的环境,不同的生活习惯,甚至不同的三观,都会影响她们的情绪反应。
要怎么做才好呢?首先,婆婆要有边界感,例如,不要随意指点安排儿媳,不要欺负儿媳。做到这些,大部分儿媳都会和婆婆相处融洽。
彼此尊重包容,否则,矛盾不断。
当然,婆媳之间有个关键人物,他是儿子,也是老公,如果他有担当有责任感,婆媳之间应该不会发生什么矛盾。你们觉得呢?确实,说起来容易,做起来难,尽力吧!