Change the way to face it. When you save so many times you will find you have meet different opinions from different authors. There are so many words to describe a phenomenal or life experience about a protagonist.
The more you read the more you will know how to choose it and be more patient about different people or different things.
you will know whatever happened it is just a normal thing. Nothing is a big deal. We are all ordinary people.
Don't think too much about a thing or a person. It is really simple and normal.
I gradually know what I need to change and adjust. Just because I can feel the emotion and try to listen it.